You’ve made it through the first year and now you are ready to head out into this great big world with your little one. Where to start? A mom’s group/playgroup is a great place to discover activities you can enjoy with your child while making little friends for your child, and grown-up ones for yourself!
A great starting place is the Internet. You can find local groups by using sites such as www.meetup.com or www.bigtent.com. These sites give ideas for starting a successful group if one isn’t offered in your area. In addition to those who join after finding the group on the web, leaders might recruit members by inviting moms they meet at local children’s hangouts, i.e. library story times, parks, indoor play areas, etc.
Another option in finding a group is through your park district or church. Membership in the church is usually not required. MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) has a nationwide network of groups. Many churches offer playgroups for children. Parents can enjoy the camaraderie of other parents while having fun with their kids.
Once you join a group, make it a point to be active in the group. There are usually a variety of events offered, so scheduling around naptime/meals is easy. Get to know the other parents and children. If the leader is looking for input into activities, offer an idea! It can be a lot of work for one person to do all the legwork that planning an event incurs, so offer your help.
If you are unable to get out of the house often, there are many online support groups for stay-at-home parents. These offer support, resources, and many a backyard activity for those long days at home! If you know there are parents in your neighborhood, a short note inviting them over to play or meet at the park is a great place to start.
No matter the route you take, you’re bound to find a lot to do by joining a mom’s group/playgroup. As well, you may meet some great friends, for yourself and your child!
